Kinship

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Since our story aired on Wednesday, I have heard from numerous people in similar situations. It does not cease to amaze me just how many of us find ourselves in this position. It remains unfathomable to me that our political and medical communities remain virtually unaware of the dangers of toxic mold. Here is one of the stories. (Used with permission.)

"I just watched your story on CBN. So familiar to us and what we are going through right now.

We started to suspect mold last fall. We left for a mini vacation and some of my symptoms let up drastically. We stayed with family in December when my symptoms were keeping me from getting out of bed. Again, my symptoms let up some. Everyone was telling me I was stressed or it was depression.

I was so angry that I went home and took a hammer to my walls. The plywood was wet and the window parts were rusted inside of the walls. We built our home in 2006 in Yorkville, IL. Our builder made so many mistakes, but the biggest mistake was that they didn't install our windows correctly.

We never found a lawyer to take it on, of course the insurance company didn't help, and we let the house go. As of December of this year it was purchased by someone. I can only imagine it was an investor who will patch it and resell it. I contacted the county, the state, and others, but the house was still put up for sale with no disclosures. As much as I researched, I just didn't find the right information in time. I was very out of sorts and had trouble thinking straight, so I'm going to blame it on that I guess.

Unfortunately, we never tested. My body and my children's health was deteriorating. This much we did know. The house sat for 9 months until the bank took it back. The last time I entered, I was extremely sick within minutes to say the least. The hardest part at this point almost a year later is that all I want is my children well again.

We have moved a couple times already this year and also had to get rid of both of our cars since the mold was so bad from being in our garage. The money is gone from just trying to replace simple things and some of the necessities.

I never thought we would be at this point, but it sure has opened our eyes to the important things in life.

My kids have improved in some ways which is a blessing. My oldest daughter used to throw up almost every night and also in the car. She was having hormone changes at age 6. My middle daughter has breathing problems now and reacts to something new almost every week. She had mold growing under her new mattress. She used to stop breathing while she was sleeping in our old house and hallucinate. At least it seemed that way to me. My son was born in that house. He has allergies now and sensitivities also. They are so young, I'm not always sure they understand if they are feeling bad or not.

My symptoms started 3 years ago now, I was told I have a demylinating disease. At that point, I still didn't know it was mold. After many tests they found that I have an optic nerve delay in both eyes, which of course is from my exposure. All our symptoms are. I started juicing, went on a gluten free diet, and made some other healthy changes. I was trying to help myself with my symptoms without the drugs the neurologist gave me.

Just the other night I was thinking about how this year has been an emotional roller coaster. I heard your husband describe the same feeling. God bless your family, it means so much to me to have met you. I wish it would have been in different circumstances, but this is where I've been brought in my life now. And I know it was for a reason."

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  1. No words, except thank you Andrea for blogging.

    Praying for you and for this family as I sit here and type.

    Andrea, the four of us are looking forward to meeting you all in the (hopefully) near future.

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  2. thinking a lot about this post since I first read it... We have NOT gone through what your family, or the family in this post has gone through, and yet still.... it got me thinking...

    why do you I read your blog with such frequency... why?

    Is it mere fascination? no...
    Is it because I have no tv, and you are the next best thing to a "drama" I could find?
    no...

    Its because even though we don't stuggle with "toxic mold"...we struggle...
    we struggle with so many "chronic illnesses...." so many that still, have yet to be properly diagnosed let alone properly treated... so many issues...
    and there have been so many changes, dietary, lifestyle, and yet still, I know so many more will HAVE to be made, as my heath deteriorates so rapidly....

    We might have issues like dietary changes, or MCS in common, or what have you... but ultimately we share a faith in God... that and a life altering woe... and that is profound, but from which neither one of our families have been destroyed.... He is making us, changing us into something NEW... and though the change is painful... being in the Fathers Hand through the process makes all the difference...

    So the title of the post is the summary of why... why I come back... because of kinship... because of Jesus, because you know what it means to have your world stop, and start again to a new beat... when not everyone does... and it is sometimes nice to just know that someone KNOWS what that is like....

    thanks for blogging Andrea... on topics i know are hard to blog about....
    keep up the good work!
    you are loved !
    <>< anika

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  3. Dear Andrea,
    I feel as though I know you simply because of a common struggle to overcome some extreme health difficulties/circumstances. Our little girl has PDD(a form of autism) and we continue to POUR ourselves into her recovery. This world sure seems a lot less appealing since our little one's struggles began. It doesn't feel very "homey" here. HEAVEN is our real home. We're looking forward to the day when all of this will pass away and our dear one will be completely well...Until then, we have work to do here for her sake and for the sake of His kingdom.
    So, Andrea, THANK YOU for sharing your heart/struggles. You have helped so many! Sometimes I feel so feeble, alone, and discouraged. Then, I read your blog and I am lifted up and helped. May the LORD bless you and yours this Christmas season. Carry on!
    Your friend,
    Ann

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